"Eleven Hints for Life"

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return.But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.

3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

4. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

6. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth,even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.

7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go,

be what you want to be. Because you have only one life andone chance to do all the things you want to do.

8. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that ithurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wrecka life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may heal and bless.

10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the bestof everything they just make the most of everything that comesalong their way.

11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends witha tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die,you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.

Carrot / Lobak merah..

Hi all, Hrni nak sembang ckit pasal carrot ni..Carrot or lobak merah kaya dengan pelbagai khasiat yang tersendiri.Ramai yang mengetahui bahawa carrot ni bagus untuk penglihatan. 

Kanak-kanak pun suka kan carrot ni kan, mungkin sebab kaler dia yg menarik..Carrot  mempunyai minyak dan vitamin lengkap seperti A, B dan C, garam, potasium dan karotin. 

Karotin menghalang pertumbuhan dan pembiakan kanser, ia boleh diminum  untuk mengubati penyakit kembung perut di kalangan kanak-kanak. 

Selain itu, Carrot juga berupaya mengurangkan kandungan gula dalam badan, mencegah kanser, mengubat kencing manis, gout, 

penghadaman dan penglihatan serta penyakit jantung. (sumber pictureoffood)

Baguskan carrot ni..x semestinya untuk kanak-kanak sahaja.. from carrot ni kita boleh buat juice, buat cake jugak.. best kan..

Carrot ni one of the favorite Nayli jugak..dalam makanan dia mesti nak ade carrot..baru dia semangat nak mkn nasi / bubur..

kalo tanya mama Nayli, mesti suka sgt cake carrot kat secret receipe tu. rasa dia best...huhuhuhu...nyum..nyum.. ;)

Parenting Tips..

Don't watch scary movie with your kid..

lately, banyak sgt scary movie dlm tv, sumtimes 3 channel brturut2 dlm masa yg sama menayangkan scary movie ni.. xsmestinya crita melayu ke, cina ke even  movie english pun byk sgt skang ni. mula la anak2 pun takut.. takut nk g toilet sorg2, tkut tu, tkut gelap, takut hantu.. Nayli pun skang pandai takut2 gak.. macam i , mmg i penakut, dats y i x tgk scary movie ni.. lgpun mmg x bgus anak2 kite di ajar menontot rancangan-rancangan seperti ini.. 

So, here i would like to share a tips for parents...

You Will Scare Them Too Much!

A shiver goes up your spine as you recall the scary scene from that movie – and you can’t imagine letting your child watch anything remotely frightening, especially without you filtering every frightening connotation. Scary movies will cause nightmares, phobias, and the unrelenting need to be attached to a parent’s side – right?Research actually shows that despite all of our best intentioned efforts to support and protect our children, we can actually contribute to their fears simply by being with them. In a study published in Child: Care, Health and Development, researchers and authors were surprised themselves to find that parents who attempt to comfort and protect their children by watching scary movies with them and talking about the programs actually exacerbate the problem.

The research did show that television shows and movies can frighten children. This probably doesn’t surprise most parents. However, the results also showed that these children were more than three times as likely to be scared if they discussed the shows or movies with their parents. If parents dared to watch the programming with their children, the children were four times as likely to be frightened of the content. Apparently all of our good intentions to be there and support our kids can actually backfire. Our little munchkins are so in tune with our emotions that the smallest flinch or subtle reaction by us, the ever-loving parent, raises their fear levels.

Teaching Bravery Instead of Reinforcing Fears

Does all of this mean we just let our kids watch anything, do anything, that might be frightening, without our presence? No – researchers say that we need to alter our interactions with our kids. We need to equip them with better ways to handle their fears. It is more important to give them the tools to be brave than to comfort them when they are scared. As difficult as it can be, we need to not coddle and over-protect. The real world is full of scary things. The best thing we can do for our kids is to help them learn how to deal with those scary things on their own.

Let older kids watch scary movies without holding their hands. Beyond the age of about 7, kids are able to start to discern real from fantasy, and can compartmentalize more effectively. This doesn’t mean that your 2^ndgrader can watch horror shows and not be affected. It means that when we are choosing programming with our children and we might be inclined to think that our 2^nd grader will be frightened by Where the Wild Things Are, we need to reconsider. Scary shows don’t necessarily create phobias. Not having the skills to deal with the fears can.

If your child is fearful and running into your room every night, don’t automatically let her snuggle in your bed as you smooth her hair and her fears. She might have watched a show on spiders with you that left both of you with creepy, crawly skin, so you think that you are empathizing with her. What you are actually doing is reinforcing her fears. Instead, acknowledge that she is afraid and ask her how she can be braver. Start with one night sleeping alone, perhaps with a night light. Give your kids the tools to be brave on their own.

Don’t make light of their fears and turn them into a joke. It won’t help your children to belittle their fears and won’t give them the tools they need for bravery. Dismissing the fears of children only reinforces to them that you won’t take their worries seriously, and that could set your relationship up for serious issues in the future.

sources: http://www.betterparenting.com/dont-watch-scary-movies-with-your-kids/

wordless friday..

Happy Alwayz..Nayli's favourite song..tp dia xpaham pun..

Weekend yang bosan...

Sian Nayli last weekend..duk umah jer x g mana2 pun.. dh la yesterday (sunday) dia demam la pulak..so terperap je la lam umh..papa lak bz ade program weekend.. mama lak mls nk g mana2..xde mood.. Sory ek Nayli, if next weekend kite kena tggal lg, mama will plan sumthing ek.. mama ajak blik kg kat nek mi xnak..tkut naik bus..konon.. ingat nek kete papa nak bg? jgn harap k..heheheh...

Nayli dah penat main sorg2..ckp ngan bear2 dia sorg, layan disney junior sorg2, layan boboiboy sorag2, dia dtg kat mama dia, dia ajak gaduh..huhuhu... tp gaduh skejap je la kan..huhuhu..bosan tahap gaban kan Nayli..  :(   ...malas nk update dah..

Collection of soother

Harini nak citer pasal Nayli nye habits dulu ni..Habits die ni since lahir sampai la umur dia msuk 2 thn lbih jugakla..bermaksud baru beberapa bln ni la dia stop habits dia nih..Actually Nayli ni obses dengan soother ni..tp Nayli panggil tits.. xtau la korang panggil pe..

Since lahir rasanya collection dia dh lbih dari 10..kalo xde soother tu alamaknya.. 2 jam pun dia xkan stop lg nanges..huhuhu....mcm2 kaler, mcm2 patern ade..auntie2 dia pun ade gak yg belikan soother utk dia..bukan nk melarang..lg nk menggalakkan..
Tp now, sume tu dah over......berkat kesabaran kitaorg selamani..akhirnya Nayli berjaya stop dia nyer habit ni..No more tits ok.. kes dia 1 day, papa dia bengang gile coz Nayli duk ngamuk nak tits, tp that time tits dia dh koyak ckit, so mcm x hygiene  la kan..at last papa dia putus kan 2 then mintak dia pilih nak yg hujung & pangkal, dengan air mata berjujuran..Nayli menggelengkan kepalanya..huhu..sadis time tu..

Tp whatever pun, tu sume utk kebaikan dia..so skang ni, kalo dia nmpak soother ni pun, dia dh xnak.. Dia dh used to it la.. Bagusla kan..Bukan bagus pun soother ni..

I ade baca from blog Dr. Azwan, di antara keburukan soother ni termasuklah :

Terlalu menghisap puting kosong ini, susunan gusi atas akan lari dan menyebabkan pertumbuhan gigi menjadi tidak sekata. Pertumbuhan gigi ini ada yang terlalu ke depan yang kita istilahkan sebagai "jongang" atau "overbite". 

"Kejongangan" (betul ke istilah ni?) akan berkekalan sehingga dewasa dan boleh menyebabkan rasa rendah diri dan lebih teruk menyusahkannya untuk mengunyah makanan jika terlalu teruk.

Anak-anak apabila dewasa terpaksa pula berjumpa dengan pakar gigi untuk membetulkan susunan gigi menggunakan alat "braces" atau yang terlalu teruk terpaksa menjalani pembedahan rahang.

Sekiranya anak anda mempunyai masalah lelangit terbelah (cleft palate), dengan menggunakan puting kosong ini akan menyebabkan jurang antara lelangit yang terbelah menjadi lebih luas dan menyukarkan proses pembedahan. Oleh itu adalah dinasihatkan, kepada anak yang mempunyai masalah cleft palate mesti menghindari penggunaan puting kosong (malah menyusu menggunakan puting pun tidak digalakkan) ini secara berdisiplin. 

Nayli's and her cousins..

From left Aqis, Caca & Nayli

Nayli got 2 cousin..dua2 gurl2 gak..1 dh almost 6 years. another one baya Nayli gak 3 years.. Tp dorang ni bile jauh rindu2.. bile dekat, asyik gaduh jer..baik kejap je..pastu start la gaduh2.. Nasib baik ade auntie2 cum bibik dorg ni yg tgk2 kan dorang.. salunya time kami berkumpul rmai2 la...tu pun boleh bilang sthn brp kali je kami together2..huhuhu..masing2 bz la katakan..
Actually, Nayli aka Sara ni yg paling muda among them. cousin dia called her Sara..dari kecik lg mmg dh panggil dia mcm tu..Cousin Nayli stay kt Johor.. jauh tu..salunya time raya or any family event br kitaorg together2..

Nayli..Admitted, Oct 2010

Nayli pernah admitted kat KPJ Shah Alam on last October 2010.. Kes dia high fever + flu.. dalam 5 hari jugak la kami berkampung kat KPJ tu..

Every 5 hours kena mkn ubt demam 5ML x 2 types of ubat demam.. every 5  hours jugak, kena sedut gas utk kurangkan kahak.. gas tu mmg x best la.. kite yg bau ni pun rs nak terbatuk2.. huhuhu..

So skang ni, every time Nayli start demam je, kami dh start control ape yg die makan n minum.. coz salu nya bile dmam, dia akan selsema n batuk teruk.. pergi clinic je confirmed kena sedut gas lg..huhu..

Nayli's Today..

Today, don’t know how to start about Nayli’s ni.. She woke up early today, tp x buat prangai coz dh cukup tdo kot.. pg2 dh “mama, nak chocolate 3 k, 1 utk Nayli, 1 utk Marsha….”dia start count kengkawan dia.. Macam tu la Nayli everyday. Ada je benda nak bwk g Taska, Harini siap bwak magazine Mickey Mouse Clubhouse..Bajet terror dh leh baca la tu..heheheh.. suka sgt ngan magazine tu..

Semalam tetiba jer..”jom mama pegi papa…” br 1 hari papa outstation dh ingat papa dah.. Almaklum la xde teman nk bertekak la tu..heheh.. Kalo ade dekat kemain lg.. asyik nak smack down jer.. kecoh rumah..

Weekend ni ingat nak bwk Nayli g swimming la..dh lama sgt x bwk g d swimming pool..tu pun kalo cuaca mengizinkanla.. if not, melepak lam umah jer la smpai Monday..hahahah.. nak g mall pun pyh nk bwk Nayli if papa die not around.. Nayli ni active sgt..dh la jln x nk bg org pegang, pastu lari lak laju.. x terkejar mamanya..terus dh xleh control ayu..kahkahkah.. berterabur gak la kena lari ikut Nayli..

Kawan2 Nayli just kat taska die jer..sama la mama die pun kwn kat ofis jer..balik keje kalo papa xde, kami memerap lam umh jer la..puas tgk tv, kami gaduh la..hahah..

Papa lak Sunday ptg or mlm br blik, weekend ni xleh follow coz papa ade program..so no place to go la.. huhuhuhu… nnt la Nayli, kite fikir dulu pe nak buat ek.. J

Quote for today...

You say you love your children,

And are concerned they learn today?So am I; 
that's why I'm providing A variety of kinds of play.

You're asking me the value

Of blocks and other such play?

Your children are solving problems.

They will use that skill everyday.

You're asking what's the value

Of having your children play?

Your daughter's creating a tower.

She may be a builder someday.

You're saying you don't want your son

To play in that "sissy" way?

He's learning to cuddle a doll.

He may be a father someday.

You're questioning the learning centers;

They just look like useless play?

Your children are making choices;

They'll be on their own someday.

You're worried your children aren't learning,

and later they'll pay?

They're learning a pattern for learning,

For they will be learners always.

---Leila P. Fagg--- 

Nayli & mickey mouse

Suke sungguh Nayli ngan mickey mouse ni..sampai kan kat taska cikgu2  pun salu col her nayli mickey mouse.. At first dia suke sgt layan mickey mouse clubhouse channel 613, then segala collection mickey mouse la die suka..

Yang latest die ade patung mickey mouse..yg paling die syg bantal mickey mouse dia..sampai dh berkepam..hahah…

Collection Nayli so far botol susu, beg sandang, t’shirt, bantal bucuk etc..

   Favourite Program 

Patung minnie

skang dia duk request nk lap top mickey lak..tggu la die bsr ckit..nnt mama belikan k..

tunggu next entry k...

Nayli 0 - 1 year

Nayli was born in 20^th Dec 2008, Now, dia dah almost 3 years.. dah pandai ckp tp pelat, dh pandai count 1,2,3, dh pandai melawan jugak..hmm…& the worst part is asyik nak menang jer.. maybe because dia still sorang..no brother and no sister..

Blog ni actually, just like nak story bout her journey from day 1 until today la.. between papa and mama, nayli dua2 close.. if papa outstation, mule la duk cari papa die..bile ade depan mata, dua beranak ni memang xleh duk diam2..ade jer benda yg x kena..pastu mula la aksi smack down..hahaha..nayli buli papa dia.. tp bile pap tinggi suara, mula la melalak.. merajuk..bebai..hahah..

One thing, Nayli ni sgt manja… xleh mrh sikit mulalah buat muka..n nanges sungguh2..saje nk tarik perhatian.. After 3 months Nayli lahir, die stay with nek mi die kt Trengganu coz that time lum dpt pengasuh yg sesuai.. tp mama die ni, by hook or by crook weekend mesti balik jupe Nayli ni…after 5 months br la jupe taska yg die stay skang ni.. auntie syam tu pun baik sgt with Nayli..dh kat 3 thn ni dh die stay ngan auntie syam tu…

I’ll continue my writing in next chapter…..Nayli mama & papa luv u so much..

Nayli Iman Qaisara 0 - 1 year